It isn't because people are stupid, but because we have egos that tell us that we're better than other people.
In essence, there's a delicate balancing act going on between the the need to be accurate and the need to succeed, to be viable, that is, to be attractive to others.
For example, if we're rejected for an award, a promotion, or something similar, our egos allow us to reject the rejection and assert our "true" nature, and our cognitive rational minds swoop in to provide a host of reasons (however one sided).
And that allows us to try to succeed again.
Without it, we might not, and if we didn't try, well, then it would be easy not to accomplish anything.
However, the bounds of our ego should come into play when we need correction. Correction doesn't come easily, because a lot of us have learned to trust intuition more than almost anything else, particularly the messages of others who have experiences that we could learn from. When we feel like we're exceptional, we don't want to sacrifice it for accuracy. Hence delusional thinking. It is easy, if you don't try, even natural.
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