Although, of course, I've disagreed with other people a LOT in my life, and stood up for myself, and whatnot, I also, lately, have almost no idea why people disagree. The only conclusion I can come to is that they actually think their opinions matter. And here I'm talking about social policy, mostly, or about something wider than one's relationship with one other person, in which case opinions do matter because they reflect and affect the relationship.
Concerning larger political issues though, I have to assume that most of us argue just to show off. Simply to be better than the other person, and not, at all, for the substance of the material. Because if our opinions don't matter, how will convincing someone at a bar or dinner or social gathering of any sort actually impact anything? It won't. And the likelihood of convincing someone is astonishingly low. So low that I wonder why it is we get so worked up in the first place.
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